How’s It Really Going?

Coffee Break Conversations with Maranda

Host Hillary sits down with special guest, Maranda, in Wedgwood’s Coffee Break Conversation. She is a beloved figure in the West Michigan community and a long-time partner with Wedgwood. Maranda shares her experiences and passion for empowering kids and families through her work in local media.

With decades of experience working for WOODTV8, Maranda discusses the evolving challenges children face today, from cultural shifts to mental health issues, and the importance of genuine communication and connection.

We dive into her new initiative, “How’s It Really Going?”  is bridging the gap between families and essential resources, offering a “digital warehouse” for mental health resources and content. She offers inspiring stories, valuable insights, and practical tips on how to effectively connect with and support the children in our lives.

 

What are some big changes with children and families over the years?

Entertainment for children has evolved significantly. In prior years, there was a clear distinction in entertainment for children and adults. Today, the boundaries have merged with children increasingly engaging in the same entertainment as adults. This change brings new challenges, like the language kids use and the situations they see and experience. Many children are exposed earlier and earlier, accelerating their development.

Many kids are now active on social media. The levels of loneliness and self-doubt increase when they do not receive the expected response or validation. For example, if you post something you find exciting or vulnerable and it gets fewer likes than anticipated, it may affect your self-esteem and feel like a personal rejection. For kids whose brains are still developing and learning what relationships look like, it can be harmful to their growth and well-being.

Deep down kids are kids. They want to play, hang out, be known, and be loved. However, the fast-paced world around them is pushing them to grow up much faster, leading to increased stress and anxiety.

What are relevant ways to effectively connect with kids and families?

Kids simply want to be heard and known! While adults may think they understand what kids are experiencing, the only way to truly understand their perspectives is by engaging with them yourself. To build meaningful connections, actively listen to them, ask them questions that matter to them, and allow them to share their own stories.

Check out our blog to learn how 10 minutes can make a difference in your child’s life.

Many children, regardless of age or background, experience loneliness. Adults often assume a child’s online interactions are a sign of emotional well-being, but it’s dig deeper. Ask questions like, “Who are they really talking to?” and “Who is really listening to them?” If kids lack authentic, supportive relationships in their lives, they may feel isolated. Constant communication doesn’t always mean meaningful communication.

What is “How’s It Really Going?”

The “How’s it Really Going?” initiative helps address challenges like loneliness and stress that children face, while also supporting caregivers. As Maranda emphasizes, “It doesn’t matter who you are, where you’re from, what you do—our kids are struggling.” She encounters families unsure of how to connect or access the appropriate resources. To help with these struggles, Maranda developed a digital platform offering reliable resources in the Grand Rapids area and content from her partners like Wedgwood. This program is getting the conversation started about children’s mental health with the phrase, “Don’t just ask how’s it going, ask how it’s really going.”

Many parents and caregivers want to improve their child’s well-being but lack the necessary resources. While this platform may not solve the problem, it provides valuable tools and information. With increased knowledge and support, caregivers can gain confidence. “How’s It Really Going?” offers hope by showing help is available and encourages parents and caregivers to seek assistance and utilize the expertise of various organizations in the community.

Access online resources by visiting www.WOODTV.com/MentalHealth

 

What impact do Mental Health Resources have on kids and families?

It is important for the community to come together and invest in addressing the challenges faced by children and families. Kids need to feel supported and know that there are people committed to their success. Implementing these kinds of relationships helps kids care for others, develop empathy, and most importantly as Maranda says, “Become the person they were created to become.”

Be a role model for your kids and make time for them. Even if they seem distant or resistant, challenge them because deep down they desire your attention and connection. Spending time with your child has no price tag. Simple activities like cooking a meal together, taking walks, or visiting family members can strengthen your bond and make a meaningful impact.

 

MARANDA’S 3 TIPS TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE WHERE YOU LIVE WITH THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE?

Be kind.

It’s challenging for children to navigate their place in the world, so extend the same kindness at home that you show in public.

 

Small acts make a big difference.

Even little gestures of kindness can have a meaningful impact and touch people’s hearts.

 

Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it is within your power to act.

Seeing everyone come together to make a positive impact in our community is truly rewarding.

 

Wedgwood is here to help!

At Wedgwood Christian Services, you’ll find a caring and compassionate team of professionals who understand the complexities of mental health and are committed to providing individualized care that meets your unique needs. Wedgwood’s holistic approach offers a comprehensive range of services to help you or your loved one achieve mental health growth & progress.

Wedgwood Christian Services is located on the southeast side of Grand Rapids in West Michigan.

If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health, Wedgwood’s Counseling and Psychiatric Services have immediate openings. You can contact the Bouma Counseling Center at (616) 942-7294 or email counseling@wedgwood.org for more information.

 

Want to learn more about “How’s It Really Going?” Check out Wedgwood’s Coffee Break Conversation to see the full episode with Maranda on our YouTube channel or the Wedgwood Podcast – available wherever you get your podcasts.